Any couples who had a marriage both experience the engagement. It is an exciting time when a couple contemplates marriage and begins the steps in getting engaged. Marriage is the holy thing, everyone mostly have it once in their life. So, before getting into marriage, what should you know and what should you do?
1. Have the marriage proposal
Marriage proposal is the most important thing before marriage. Usually, this will be proposed by men, if a man makes a woman feel special and takes the time to incorporate things that are significant to their relationship in the proposal, there is no way to go wrong. You could ask for her friends, family members, and your friends and family members, let them vitness the happy moment. You could also write some poems, choose holidays such Christmas, Valentine’s Day or birthday. Adopt some creative ideas will add some spicy into your life.
2. Plan for the marriage
This means that you should determine the date and make a plan for your marrigae. What kind of wedding you will like and wish? What necessity for marriage? Who you will invite? How many people will join? Besides, there are more details should be disscussed with family members.
Shop means purchasing marriage rings, this will be a romantic thing in new couples. A man can choose to select an engagement ring prior to the proposal or wait to shop for a ring with his fiancée. A groom-to-be can also ask the advice of her friends or family about what type of ring his girlfriend would like.
4. Discuss future with family
It means before marriage, you should set goals, plan for the future life. Married life discussions should cover issues such as desired number of children, parenting styles and lifestyle expectations. Discussions about the expectations of married life can also help couples determine how to merge their individual goals into family goals. This will help to strengthen the opinion, will help you to understand each other in an effective way.
After determine the marriage date, the last step is to announce your relatives and family. Announcing engagement at a party, sending out formal announcement, telling people by phone or email. This will make them be respected. Keep the proper and old traditions.